Archive for November, 2009

Home again,

FINALLY.  Seems like all I have done for the last two weeks is run in my SUVY back and forth to town, East Texas, and over Southern Oklahoma.  All right I’m stretching a bit, but that’s what it seems like.  You understand where I live, it’s 20 minutes to town just to get to a grocery store—more like 35 for a Wal Mart or somewhere that really has shops.  First to grocery store and pick up food for Tony, so he won’t starve while I’m gone to Tyler, TX.  Then down to East TX.  I had a really nice visit with my sister and my aunt and  her kids, saw my Mom, got her to the doctor and squeezed in a visit with my Mother-in-law (whom I adore).  After a two hours doctor visit on Monday, I started home, made it with no problems.  Tony and the dogs were glad to have me home after 4 days.  I had planned on spending Tuesday cleaning up (those of you that are married know how important this is after being gone for 4 whole days).  First thing that morning the phone rings and it’s my daughter, car trouble on the way to work—so we figure out what to do about that, in entailed a trip to Ardmore (1hour one way) to drop off the car so it could be fixed.   Then on Wednesday something else came up (a trip to town, for Tony) and  going down to Durant for a 4H thing I’m committed to.  Thursday I actually was home all day!!!  Got some stuff done and caught up on what’s been happening here.  Friday I had to get a friend and go back to Ardmore to get my daughters car, and blew the whole day on that going to WalMart for a few items.  I know not to go on Fridays, but I was out of stuff I needed.  This is a long way around to say, I missed you all and I hope you have been doing ok.             I guess all the running around was good for me I weighed in last night and I’m at 188.  That  scale finally moved in the right direction.                                                                                                                                      Tony’s family is coming up for Thanksgiving and I’m trying to gear myself up  TO NOT OVER INDULGE–I love all the foods that come with Thanksgiving and Christmas.  Hopefully we will have nice weather, all the girls like to walk in the afternoon after we eat, so that will help 

Anyway, you all, I didn’t have anything great to say, just wanted to catch up and say hello and I hope you all have a wonderful and safe thanksgiving.  This has been such a rough year for so many of us, but I know we all have blessings that we should be thankful for, we just have to remember them.   

A really BAD AWFUL two days!!!

Hey guys, as you can see it’s been a rough two days, one of my daughters horses, got sick(colic) and I’ve been with her and the horse for the last two days.  I’m tired worn down and depresses.  After all the vet tried he couldn’t save her and we had to put her down today.  The little bay mare was named Dixie and she was a pretty, sweet little southern belle, just a little bit of an attitude, but no meanness at all.  She was a great trail horse and so gentle anyone could ride her.  She was my daughter’s boyfriend’s first horse and although he wasn’t riding her any longer, in fact she was staying at my barn, he was crushed.  It is always hard to lose one, but your first horse, no matter how old you are when you get it, is always very special.  We will all miss her a lot.  My husband took his backhoe to Rachel’s place and we buried Dixie there on the place along side Josh’s pony Holly.  Afterwards Rachel and I were talking and she said to me ” God is really calling a fine string of horses to heaven this year.”  This year we have lost Ace and Dixie, and three  of our very close friends have lost their horses as well.  Just another reason I’ll be glad to see 09 check out.  Hopefully for us, 2010 will be much better.   Sorry I haven’t been around, let’s hope that the weekend is better.   

Something that touched me and made me think.

I wanted to share this story with you all…it made me think about the little things we do that touch other people in ways that maybe we don’t even realize.  For good or bad.  This story–the idea behind it made me think about my buddies here–people I have never met, that are willing to take the time to support me and be a listening post when I need it most.  So thank you  and I hope you enjoy the little story like I did.

When I was a young boy, my father had one of the first telephones in our neighborhood.. I remember the polished, old case fastened to the wall. The shiny receiver hung on the side of the box. I was too little to reach the telephone, but used to listen with fascination when my mother talked to it. Then I discovered that somewhere inside the wonderful device lived an amazing person. Her name was “Information Please” and there was nothing she did not know. Information Please could supply any one’s number and the correct time.  My personal experience with the genie-in-a-bottle came one day while my mother was visiting a neighbor… Amusing myself at the tool bench in the basement, I whacked my finger with a hammer, the pain was terrible, but there seemed no point in crying because there was no one home to give sympathy.

I walked around the house sucking my throbbing finger, finally arriving at the stairway. The telephone! Quickly, I ran for the footstool in the parlor and dragged it to the landing. Climbing up, I unhooked the receiver in the parlor and held it to my ear. Information, please” I said into the mouthpiece just above my head.  A click or two and a small clear voice spoke into my ear “Information.”  “I hurt my finger…” I wailed into the phone, the tears came readily enough now that I had an audience.   “Isn’t your mother home?” came the question  “No body’s home but me,” I blubbered.  “Are you bleeding?” the voice asked.   “No,”  I replied. “I hit my finger with the hammer and it hurts.”  Can you open the icebox?” she asked.   I said I could.   Then chip off a little bit of ice and hold it to your finger,” said the voice..  After that, I called “Information Please” for everything.. I asked her for help with my geography, and she told me where
Philadelphia was. She helped me with my math. She told me my pet chipmunk that I had caught in the park just the day before, would eat fruit and nuts. Then, there was the time Petey, our pet canary, died. I called,   Information Please,” and told her the sad story. She listened, and then said things grown-ups say to soothe a child. But I was not consoled. I asked her, “Why is it that birds should sing so beautifully and bring joy to all families, only to end up as a heap of feathers on the bottom of a cage?”   She must have sensed my deep concern, for she said quietly, ”
Wayne , always remember that there are other worlds to sing in.”   Somehow I felt better.                                      
Another day I was on the telephone, “Information Please.”   Information,” said in the now familiar voice. “How do I spell fix?”  I asked.  All this took place in a small town in the Pacific Northwest . When I was nine years old, we moved across the country to Boston . I missed my friend very much. “Information Please” belonged in that old wooden box back home and I somehow never thought of trying the shiny new phone that sat on the table in the hall. As I grew into my teens, the memories of those childhood conversations never really left me..                                                            Often, in moments of doubt and perplexity I would recall the serene sense of security I had then. I appreciated now how patient, understanding, and kind she was to have spent her time on a little boy. A few years later, on my way west to college, my plane put down in Seattle . I had about a half-hour or so between planes. I spent 15 minutes or so on the phone with my sister, who lived there now. Then without thinking what I was doing, I dialed my hometown operator and said, “Information Please.” Miraculously, I heard the small, clear voice I knew so well.   “Information.”  I hadn’t planned this, but I heard myself saying,   “Could you please tell me how to spell fix?”  There was a long pause. Then came the soft spoken answer, “I guess your finger must have healed by now…”   I laughed, “So it’s really you,” I said. “I wonder if you have any idea how much you meant to me during that time?”   I wonder,” she said, “if you know how much your call meant to me.   I never had any children and I used to look forward to your calls.”    I told her how often I had thought of her over the years and I asked if I could call her again when I came back to visit my sister.   “Please do”, she said. “Just ask for Sally.”

Three months later I was back in  Seattle .  A different voice answered,   “Information. ‘  I asked for Sally.   “Are you a friend?” she said.   “Yes, a very old friend,” I answered.   “I’m sorry to have to tell you this,”She said. “Sally had been working part time the last few years because she was sick. She died five weeks ago.”   Before I could hang up, she said, ” Wait a minute, did you say your name was
Wayne ?” “   Yes.” I answered.  Well, Sally left a message for you.   She wrote it down in case you called.     Let me read it to you…”   The note said,    
“Tell him there are other worlds to sing in. ‘  He’ll know what I mean..”   I thanked her and hung up. I knew what Sally meant.   Never underestimate the impression you may make on others..  

Life is a journey… NOT a guided tour.

Thanks buddies, have a great day!!